Hey I just thought I'd let everyone know I'm not leaving the site or the parties. After talking about the issue with some good friends of mine, I decide that by leaving I'm only empowering the person who lost their cool in the first place. So by standing b …

Some of you may have read my profile and wondered what what I mean when I say I'm "heteroflexible". It causes confusion sometimes about which way I swing. This blog entry is to explain to you what is heteroflexibility and why I consider myself to be this. …

Fellas! Heed my words! Women like intelligence! Yes, this is a swingers site, and we are all here to hopefully get laid, but you have to understand that starting out with "Hey, wanna fuck?" just isn't going to cut it! You need a more subtle mental touch. Y …

    1. Do not assume that all women want to immediately have sex with you because we are so won over by your tact, wit, charm, personality and stunning good looks. *note that the key words are bolded.   2. Do treat a lady with respect. We don't want to be …

Im sorry.  There, its out there, even I can fuck it up sometimes!     Ive been told quite a bit recently that "I flirted with you at the party, but you seemed uninterested".  I swear that Ive very rarely intended to turn someone away so fast.  Im SHY!!     …

I pretty much drive the same route each day.  You know.. work to home, home to work etc.  I also leave at about the same time.  Pretty soon you get to where you recognize the same vehicles stopped at the light down the street.  After all, you are all there …

I sleepy, Im loopy.  I need someplace to just ramble.  If you like it great, if not well thats ok too.     Im sittin here watchin all those wonderful pics of some great man abs scroll by and its makin me drool.  I like great abs!!  I like shaved heads!  Mo …

RAVES (as in Reviews)!.... Part 1   Ok Ok, I get it.  While some of you are standing up and saying RIGHT ON to the previous blogs, some have said that all Im doing is complaining.  Since I talk about Peaves, Rants AND Raves, I suppose I should put up some …

Rants!!!!... Part 1   Oral Sex.... oh where to start.  Guys, I KNOW I am not the norm but please dont try to impress me with telling me that you just wanna go down on me.  And also dont tell me that you can eat pussy for hours.  Honestly, Im gonna be bored …

Pet Peaves....   This is just me and not a representation of other women (although Im sure a few would agree), but things you should probably know if you ever hope to get the opportunity to melt me.    1.  "Greetings"... what is the point of a greeting?  S …