Yep, its true.  Im a slut.  A very good friend of mine today told me so lol.  Yes, he's still a friend, but then of course he knows that being called a slut... by the right person... at the right time... will damn near make me squirt.  

So I asked him to define "slut" to me.  What he thinks it means to himself and other men.  He told me that he couldnt speek for others of course, but for him, I was the perfect example of a slut.  I LOVE sex, in all ways and styles.  I like it slow and sensual.  I also like it fast, rough and hard.  I like everything in between.  I have very few absolute no's.  I am an expert at bj's (Im not sure about that, but he claims I am) and enjoy giving them.  I give sex my absolute all each and every time (which is why I usually need a nap afterwards).  I dont have a "favorite position" because I love them all.  I enjoy men and women.  Im a squirter and a screamer.  I love being talked dirty to during sex... call me a bitch, a whore, a slut and Im gonna squirt all over you.  

Of course I was blushing like hell hearing him describe my sexual habits.  Then I explained that the term "slut" TO ME implied that I would fuck anyone.  He said... NOOOOO.... it means that he can do whatever he wants to me, once Ive agreed to let him.  He knows that Im kind of picky about who I play with, but that once Ive agreed to have sex with someone, that Im "all in" and that makes me the perfect lil slut.

So I guess I have to admit it.  I AM a slut.  Now I just need to wrap my head around acknowledging the term and accepting hearing it when Im not actually fucking.