I've had a lot of men and a few woman since last Fridays, what to me makes a good lover. So I've come up with a nice little list of traits I feel my ideal lover should have. Now remember this is just my opinion, so it not everyone will share my view. Hope this answers some questions 

Part 1 The Aproch

1. Listing to me.

If im sharing something about myself or a thing I like, listen. If I tell you to be gentler or slow down or go faster, do it. I'm not just blowing hot air. I hate feeling ignored, so never make me feel like I can't talk to you.

2. Don't make me chase you.

If you want some loving from me, the fastest way to make me  loss interest is if you make me chase you. I want to feel like I'm a prize you are trying to get, not desperate.

3. Whoo me.

Coming up to me and saying "I want to f@&k you", your not going to make me want to have you. Try a more smooth approach like  "wow you look so beautiful, want to get something to drink?" the flirt with me for a little bit. It works very well. I love to feel like I'm being whooed. Flatter me, flirt, hug my waist, whatever. Whooing will get you way farther with me then being brash.

Part 2 The look

1.  Eyes go a Long Way.

I'm a sucker for a nice set of eyes. Blue, green, grey, even the occasional greenish hazel will stop me in my tracks.

2. Love Your Body.

I love when men care for there bodies. Even tho I'm a BBW I do have muscle tone in my legs and back because I swim on a regular bases. I also take good care of my skin, wear make up and get my nails and hair done regularly. Part of being sexy is caring for the body you have no matter what weight you are.

3. Size Isn't Everything.

Wether you have a "average" package or your packing a "Hammer" size isn't what gets me, it's how well you use it. You can be hung like a horse and the sex suck or just about average and rock a woman's world. It's all about skill, not size.

Finally.....

Part 3 My likes and dislike in bed 

1. Open up and give that kitty a tongue bath.

I love to give men head, but I also expect the same in return. So if your lucky enough to get a BJ from me, you better be ready to give a little back. ;-)

2. Variety to Make Me Scream

I love a lot of different positions, so don't but dull. If your doing missionary for a bit flip me over and and let that doggie have a bone. Lol

3. It's not a race, so slow your pace.

Don't be in such a hurry to cum. Enjoy my body, drink it all in. Kiss me, pet me, lick something, tease something. Just enjoy the time.

Well I think that sums up what I consider to be the traits for my ideal lover. If you have any other questions. Leave them in the comments below. Until next post, have a sexy day.