I spent most of my life feeling like I was in the bottom half of the attractive population. Like a 4 out of 10. A coworker told me something the other day that has me thinking. She said “I don’t think you realize what an overpowering presence you are.” She was trying to convince me that I have sexual charisma that knocks the women in the office off balance. And finally, after decades of under-estimating myself, I understood. I realized what was in front of my face the whole time. 

Too many people don’t realize the potential sexual charisma they possess. its about more than awesome tits and legs. It’s about more than just wanting to fuck. We are gods and goddesses, if we are willing to claim it.

I have been frustrated for years by this site. But now I finally understand the limitations of any social media web site. It’s so hard to capture charisma on a screen. The joy of being with someone face to face isn’t here. We are trying to guess who is worth meeting, and it’s almost impossible online. Online, where charm and wit counts for nothing. Guys are just reduced to horny apes, and women just have lady parts. I want so much more from this site. I just have to learn how to use it the right way.

The first lesson for me a to take my letdowns in stride. To not take anything personally. I dream big. I chase after things I have no business chasing after. It is better to try and fail, than to not try and fail. 

I love you all, even if we don’t really know each other.