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Sexless relationship

Good evening everyone,

I just wanted to get on here and kind of vent. I’ve been in a relationship for a little over 2 years. In the course of these 2 years I can count the amount of times we’ve had sex with one hand. I’ve tried everything to get him turned on! We’ve talked about it as well, and he’s had a traumatic experience in the past, that he won’t let go of! He keeps saying he’s going to try and be better but it never happens. I love him and he loves me, we’re even moving across the country together and even talking about getting married once we get to our new destination. Our relationship is amazing, we’re best friends and have a lot in common, it’s just this sex situation that’s the problem. I try and take care of myself when the urge happens, but it’s not enough. I want that physical contact, that you can only get with sex. I try and tell myself that it’s ok, that sex isn’t important, and that one day he’ll get over his trauma and finally let loose, but honestly it’s not ok, and now I’m just getting frustrated! He is the person I see myself staying with for the rest of my life, but I want that passion as well! I don’t know what to do! 
Thanks for reading! I’d like to get any advice that could help! 

Fiona_1253 13 days ago 1 36
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  •  guy_camaro: 
     
    Have you talked about open relationship? Maybe a once a month fling type thing.....
     
     12 days ago 
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