I enjoy a good fisting session when done right, but I instantly know when it's going to be horrible on the how my pussy is treated.  Let's get one thing one straight: if you try to put your whole hand in or four of your fingers and just start pumping... YOU'RE DOING IT WRONG.  Sorry, but gentlemen, you are. And it will hurt. And I will hate you (kidding. maybe.)  Fisting is nothing more than the best massage a woman's pussy will ever experience.  And if it you're not massaging or planning to massage that pussy, don't even attempt to fist that juicy cunt.  It's an insult.  If you're 30 and under, I don't expect you to know this.  But for you more experience men, get it together.  If you want your cock touching her tonsils, fist a girl right. It's a beautiful thing.

Fisting is beautiful thing.  It requires a well oiled/lubricated pussy, a relaxed partner and your time and attention.  You want to rub her over lips gently, making her want to feel the pressure of you inside her.  Lightly guide and flick her her clit.  Play with her clit (mine is pierced and meant for entertainment).  Stroke it, rub it.  Play with it enough until her legs spread wider.  Now stick a finger.  Just one.  You have to build up to fisting, especially for a tight pussy.  Get it wet if it's not already there.  Finger her with just one digit till you can read she's ready for another.  Now stick two fingers in.  Just two.  Two will allow you to finger her twat even better.  You can begin to find angles, curl your fingers, write your name inside that pussy, because right now, you own that shit.  Pump ever so steadily.  Remember you want to prepare that pussy just right.  Now add a third finger.  Yes.  This will feel good.  If you need to, add some more lube.  A little more than enough is better.  You want to glide in the shit like it's a glove because it will be. Slowly start to stretch that pussy with three fingers.  Pump slowly, but deeply.  See how far your finger can go.  Add more lube if you need to.  But please don't go crazy with the lube.  You want to glide in, you don't want to fall.  Is that pussy ready for a fourth finger (which should be your pinky by this point).  Add lube if needed.  Ah, yes.  Her legs will open and close depending on the pressure.  Get them to stay open.  You're going to own that shit soon enough and you can't own it if it's closed.  Feel that beautiful thick juicy pussy.   Use your thumb to rub her clit. Hard.  Hard enough to where her body spasms, but not so hard it hurts.  Her want to build her up to squirting, not bleeding.  Is she sticky?  Can you feel her juices covering all four of your fingers?  Need some more lube? Get it.  Stretch that pussy.  Slowly, but firmly.  You need to get that thumb and wrist in there and those four fingers need to be doing their damn job.

Thumb.  This will probably re quire more lube.  And her to be perfectly relaxed.  Or as relaxed as her body can feel at the moment.  You're going to slowly nudge your hand in her pussy until you feel her lips covering your wrist.  Get liberal with the lube here.  She'll be happy you did. And she jerking her body up?  That's fine.  If she hasn't told you to stop or that it hurts, keep going.  Wanna know if it hurts?  She's closing her legs tight and refusing to opened.  You hurt her and fucked up.  Don't do that.  Pussy is for pleasure.  Everyone's pleasure.  Don't hurt the pussy.  Is your hand in yet?  No?  A little more lube.  A little more nudging.  When you feel whole hand in her pussy, rest.  It's going to be tight.  You're going to be pumping soon.  Give her a minute to adjust to the fullness of that manly hand all up in her pussy.  Ah, yeah.  You have control. You are stretching and owning that cunt if hers.  Now, let's have some fun.

Begin to slowly pump.  Slowly.  Read her body.  As she embraces your hand, you can pump harder.  You can add some more lube.  Get that pussy.  Use that other hand to rub over her clit  Shit!  That's going to feel AMAZING.  Yes, her body is jerking.  Hopefully, she's saying "more".  Make that pussy squirt.  Soak that bed in some juices.  All the while being mindful of your pressure and her possible pain.  Avoid both, but enjoy nonetheless.  And when she cums (don't stop until she does), she's going to miss having that hand inside her very much.  And you may not feel that you dick can compete immediately after.  So flip her on her stomach, spread her ass, add some lube and give her the anal of her life. 

Questions?