We attended the Van Nuys party last Saturday.  It was the first time either of us had done anything remotely like this before.  We were very nervous about it.   Although Nikki did her best to make us feel welcome, unfortunately, most of the other attendees did not.  After watching a woman (one of the very few other than my gf) engaging in oral sex, we made out, and didn't mind others watching us, but the uninvited and unwelcome gropes from multiple individuals ruined the mood and made us extremely uncomfortable.  She tried to nicely brush aside the unwelcome hands, but the request went largely unacknowledged. When one extremely rude and uncouth man tried to stick his finger up my gf's ass, that pretty much eneded it for us.  It didn't help matters that a number of individuals asked me if they could take her to a motel room.  Not us, but me.  A total lack of respect for her and some of the most obnoxious and ill-mannered people we've ever met.

Perhaps these individuals in question came from Craigslist and are not representative of the membership of BBWKisses.  We really like the idea of this club and wish to persue joining in future activities, but if Saturday night is at all representative of our future experiences, I'm afraid we will have to take a pass.